friendship in Afghani style ??? well let's see whats that.
Friends, well, we have different types of them, the funny ones. the smart ones, the athletic ones, the moody ones, the romantic type ( Romeo ), the lazy ones, the foody ones ( chaqakk ), and the Alien ones ( with strange hairs ).
Nowadays the key to having a life that is filled with joys and entertainment you must, of course, have friends that you can hang around, share some food, go to classes with, and take photos and post in social media to brag about your strong bond, where in reality you fight over a piece of biscuit.
and other cool stuff you like and look forward to doing with them.
But, have you guys noticed that as the time passes overs you feel that your bond is drifting. and your friend no longer finds interest in you and tends to ignore your sayings. Well, that's ok, but there is a way you can tackle these friendship hindrances.
If you are someone that sometimes face these issues there nothing to worry, i 'll share some tips with you that can assist you to be the Friend that's an awesome entity among others. well, I Myself am not the best of the best of the best but after analyzing some points about friendship I came to know these tips.
A real friend walks in when the world walks out
let's see will you find these tips helpful or not?
1. Avoid criticizing, condemning,
or complaining.
we tend to judge others by the
first look without even properly interacting with them, the notion of judging
others is a complete wastage of Ethic and it's against the ISMAlILI leanings.
when we judge someone it stops us from the futures interactions with that
person,, since we have already created a false definition of his identity in
our minds. Remember before judging its better to form a relationship with them,
just break the ice by giving a warm smile.
2. Praise others' achievements.
Remember that we all like to feel
loved, valued and appreciated, Next time you see a friend compliment the smile,
cloth or anything.
Not everyone is good in
complementing because if you compliment something that doesn't add a sense,
they may feel that you are mocking them. and Afghans mock a lot.
my work is in progress, kindly comment if you
want me to continue my work, remember your comments are my
motivation.......till next time shab bakhhir
we tend to judge others by the
first look without even properly interacting with them, the notion of judging
others is a complete wastage of Ethic and it's against the ISMAlILI leanings.
when we judge someone it stops us from the futures interactions with that
person,, since we have already created a false definition of his identity in
our minds. Remember before judging its better to form a relationship with them,
just break the ice by giving a warm smile.
2. Praise others' achievements.
Remember that we all like to feel
loved, valued and appreciated, Next time you see a friend compliment the smile,
cloth or anything.
Not everyone is good in
complementing because if you compliment something that doesn't add a sense,
they may feel that you are mocking them. and Afghans mock a lot.
my work is in progress, kindly comment if you
want me to continue my work, remember your comments are my
motivation.......till next time shab bakhhir
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Friends are always a beautiful part of a life.
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